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Section 8

Pillar three: Safety, privacy, and security

A few simple habits keep you and your information safer.

Golden rules

  • Never type your passwords, bank PIN, or full Social Security number into a chat, unless a trusted family member set up a secure way to store them and is helping you.
  • The assistant asks before acting. Read what it shows you before saying yes, especially if it involves money.
  • When in doubt, wait. Real emergencies and real businesses can wait while you check with a family member.
  • Do not use a phone number that arrived in the message. Stop, and ask a family member which number is safe to call.

Common scam warning signs

  • Someone pressures you to act right now.
  • Someone asks for payment by gift card, wire transfer, or cryptocurrency.
  • Someone claims a family member is in trouble and asks you to keep it secret.
  • You “won” something but must pay a fee first.
  • A message asks you to click a link to “fix” your account.

If anything feels off, ask your assistant: “Does this look like a scam?” Then talk to someone you trust before doing anything.

Your private information

  • Only the people and services you or your family member connected can be reached through the assistant.
  • You can ask what it remembers about you, and ask it to forget something.
  • Lock your phone or computer with a passcode, and do not share it with strangers.
  • If you get a message or code you were not expecting, do not share it. Tell a family member.